Guru maharaj: Tough question! You see the secret is to be more attached to Krishna. It is natural that we have attachment, and ladies especially may have attachment. So if we can direct our attachment to Krishna, then that will naturally make us more resilient in the face of difficulties. The married people Prabhupad said, that sanyasis should not guide them. Rather he would himself, although he was previously a grihastha, he did not advise grihastha disciples. All the details of settling their marriage disputes, he advised them to go to some senior grihasthas and take their advice. So when there is some problem in the grihastha life, it is good if you have some counsellor, that is accepted by both and then try to work out the problems. You may not be able to solve all the problems, but at least you can work with them.
HH JAYAPATAKA SWAMI
11th March 2019
Sri Dham Mayapur, India